What to do.

If you are dating someone who is jealous, possessive, aggressive, and violent, or who puts you down, doesn't let you see your friends, or makes people who love you worry about you, you could be a victim of dating abuse. If you want out of the relationship you should tell your family, a friend, a counselor, or someone you trust who can help. Do not meet your partner when you are alone. Do keep a detailed log of the abuse. Tell people where you are going and when you plan to arrive and rehearse what you would do if you encountered your abusive partner. If you notice that a friend is in an abusive relationship, talk to your friend about it. Show your friend their gifts and strengths because they may no longer have confidence in themselves. Encourage them to find help. And call the police if you witness an assault. Never act as a mediator or put yourself in a dangerous situation with the abuser. Previous               Next